
Cravings. They are the biggest challenge we face when trying to eat well.
Each day, we’re torn between what we want to eat versus what we should eat.
And when we do give into cravings we bash ourselves for not having enough willpower.
But when we stop fighting our cravings and start listening to them, we discover they have little to do with willpower or even hunger!
After having two kids, I wanted a brownie sundae...like every night.
But when I asked myself, “What do I REALLY want?” (brownies, damnit!) it actually had nothing to do with food.
Racing through each day, taking care of everyone else, that chocolaty treat was the only way I was pampering myself.
What I really needed was yoga, time with my girlfriends and a pedicure!
Once I started carving out time for what I really needed, my brownie sundae cravings went away.
So what are you craving?
Next time you have a craving do this:
1. Don’t push it away. Get curious. Ask “What do I really, really want?” It might be a nap. Maybe you spend your free time running errands and you need some time for yourself. Maybe you’re lonely and need to connect with other people.
2. Before giving into your craving wait 10 minutes. Spend that time asking yourself what you really want, drink a glass of water and take slow long breaths. When times up, if you still want it go for it. But you may find by giving yourself a little attention, you’re willing to go for the less sinful option or that you’re not hungry at all.
3. When you give into a craving, enjoy it! Eat it slowly and in public. Chew every bite. Make it last. We try to fool ourselves that we’re not eating something by doing it in hiding or eating it quickly. By being mindful you will digest it better and will be less likely to give into more cravings throughout the day.